| Terrible
Advice About Homosexuality
January
2001
Dr. Pollack
is so wrong on homosexuality that it’s difficult to understand what
is motivating him. Although it’s true that some new information has
been discovered since his book was published in 1998, he is totally
out-of-date.
He begins
by saying that between 5%-10% of men are homosexual. But most people
are now agreed that it is less than 3%. He says that homosexuality was
deleted as a disorder by psychiatrists “by 1980,” whereas the accurate
statement is that it was deleted not “by” 1980 but “in” 1972.
He makes
this arrogant statement: “Today, even the most conservative psychoanalysts
are beginning to accept that homosexuality is a normal part of human
life and that being gay is not something that mental health professionals
should attempt to change (or that they can change.)”
Has Dr.
Pollack not heard about the organization of mental health professionals
who do help homosexuals to change their orientation? Has he not heard
about the psychiatrist who led the fight in the American Psychiatric
Association in 1972 to remove homosexuality from the list of “disorders,”
Dr. Robert Spitzer? This doctor has examined some of the patients who
have made the change to heterosexuality and he supports their claims
that they have changed.
When Pollack
wrote the book in 1998, there were still some people who believed the
“gay gene” theory, but there are practically none today.
Pollack
wrote about the “scientific findings” he has presented in his book.
He says they are endorsed by the changing attitudes of our society.
But he didn’t present any “scientific findings.” He made the extreme
statement that “all of science” says there’s no link between a boy’s
early behavior and their adult orientation.
He reports
that “even” the Catholic Church is “offering words of support” as though
the church approves the practice. Whereas, the truth is that the Catholic
Church, like most people, tells parents to love and support their “homosexual”
child, but not to embrace the practice. (The full text of their Catechism
of 1997 is in the sidebar.)
He claims
“there is simply no evidence” that childhood experiences can be a cause
of homosexuality. He should address that statement to Dr. Spitzer or
to the other professionals who belong to the organization of psychologists
and psychiatrists who can show him plenty of evidence. Pollack still
writes about the discarded “gay gene” theory. He states that people
are “probably” born with a “predominant orientation toward either the
opposite sex or the same sex.” He cites an old study about twins that
is 45-years-old without mentioning the newer ones and he cites a study
of the brain which has been heavily criticized by other scientists.
The author of that latter study went on to found the Institute of Gay
and Lesbian Education.
He ends
this chapter with a discussion about the “serious health crisis” that
we have because of AIDS and then says, “Taking the necessary precautions
is easy.” Easy?
There is
no precaution that will guarantee protection from AIDS! What a terrible
thing to advise parents
of vulnerable teenagers.
He also
gives a boost to the Gay/Straight Alliances that we have in Massachusetts
and recommends that more states should adopt them. “Fortunately in some
schools and communities there are now special awareness programs that
teach teenage kids about gay and lesbian issues. Some states, such as
Massachusetts, have a statewide task force dedicated to developing social
and educational programs specifically for gay adolescents.”
We’re
All Homosexual
Dr. Pollack believes that we are all homosexual. “[T]here
is every reason to believe that homosexuality and heterosexuality are
not absolutes, that substantial gray areas exist. Not everybody is 100
percent homosexual or 100 percent heterosexual. In addition to people
who are “bisexual” – who feel a strong romantic pull toward people of
both sexes – there are many gay people who sometimes have heterosexual
feelings or experiences, and many straight people who sometimes have
homosexual feelings or experiences.
“Indeed,
if we accept that homosexuals, by definition, are predominately attracted
to people of the same sex, it is implicit that some homosexuals –
or perhaps some small part of almost every homosexual – feels
attracted to a certain extent to people of the opposite sex. Likewise,
if we accept that heterosexuals, by definition, are predominately attracted
to the other gender, it must also be true that some heterosexuals –
or some small part of almost every heterosexual – feels drawn in one
way or another to members of the same sex. Determining our sexual orientation,
at the end of the day, is not about finding simple black and white answers.
Our sexual identity is almost always complex, unclear, confusing.”
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