Help for Home Schoolers

New Guides Make It Easier for Parents to Take the Plunge

  • The Homeschooling Revolution
    By Isabel Lyman, Ph.D.
    $11.95 (Canada, $13.95) which includes shipping and handling (except for international orders).
    - Make checks payable to:
    Isabel Lyman
    88 Harkness Road
    Pelham, Massachusetts 01002
  • The Complete Guide to Attending College: How to Go to College and Still Obtain an Education
    By Bruce C. Smith, Ph.D.
    http://dreamscp.com/smithhand/college.html

By Paul Moreno
April 2001

Isabel ("Izzy") Lyman home-schooled her two sons and ran a private school in Amherst.

She has long been a home school advocate and has written columns on home schooling in the Boston Herald, Investors Business Daily, The Wall Street Journal and National Review.

Her new book answers many questions that parents have asked her about home schooling, and draws on the experience of many who have left public and private schools.

Some fled "whole language" reading instruction. Others left because the "multiculturalist" agenda was promoting racial and ethnic divisions. Some had their children forced into special education classes. Others left because the schools were anti-Christian, or just too dumbed-down and boring for their children.

Whatever the source, all over the country tens of thousands of parents have discovered that it is not necessary to have a credentialed "professional" to teach a child to read and write.

They have joined the home schooling "revolution," which is really "a return to the way education was before the days of common schools and compulsory schooling laws."

These parents have often sacrificed lucrative careers in order to give their children a better education. They have done anything necessary to keep their children out of the hands of "the professionals."

While the decision to home school does require a major commitment, gone are the days when parents might be arrested for refusing to send their children to public or private schools-as Sam and Marquita Shippy of Idaho did in 1984.

Home schooling is now legal in every state, although some states (like Texas) are more accommodating while others (Massachusetts) are difficult.

Massachusetts recognized the right to home school one's children in 1978, but Lyman notes that, "Curriculum is subject to the approval of the local superintendents, and submission of standardized test scores can be required, as can periodic reports on the students' progress."

Until last year, home schooling families in Lynn were required to have their homes evaluated by school officials. Two Lynn families, the Brunelles and the Pustells, went to court over the issue of home visits, and the Supreme Judicial Court of Massachusetts ruled in their favor. For a long time Massachusetts school authorities tried to exclude home schooled children from participating in interscholastic athletics.

Parents who home school have the help of the Home School Legal Defense Association in cases like these. In December, the Association came to the defense of a Kentucky woman who was jailed after refusing to send her daughter to public school.

Lyman distinguishes between "education" and "schooling." Real education, she says, does not require a school at all. This is part of the reason why she says that there is no real difference between public and private schools.

"Note the similarities," she says, "between public and private schools. One adult, typically a woman, is expected to communicate information to a group of unrelated, uninterested, and intellectually-varied students. Sometimes there are more than 25 of these charges. The information has been selected by adults other than the students' parents or their teachers, as have the textbooks and the instructional methods. All students in a school are subject to the same predetermined academic standards, grading policies, and behavioral guidelines.... Grade levels are determined primarily by age, regardless of aptitude. Students are expected to arrive and depart at the same time every day."

Besides the similarity of regimentation, "The fact is that most private schools can't even exist without conforming to an educational paradigm established and regulated by public education bureaucrats." This should serve as a warning to voucher advocates.

Not Just for Conservatives

Lyman attributes the hom schooling revolution to "a pair of Paul Reveres who alerted parents to the pitfalls of dispatching their children off to schools" in the 1960s.

One was Raymond Moore, who discovered that most of the developmental problems of young children (hyperactivity, nearsightedness, dyslexia) resulted from a too-early exposure to institutionalized settings. He and his wife were also concerned about the dangers of secular ideology in the public schools. They wrote their best-selling books from a Christian viewpoint, Better Late than Early and Home School Handbook.

The other was John Holt, who advocated home schooling from a libertarian point of view, including advocating drug use and sexual experimentation for children.

In the 1970s, most home schoolers were counter-culture hippie types who had dropped out of mainstream culture. But by the 1980s, Christian conservatives were the main ones dropping out.

Parents Have Nothing to Fear

Many parents worry that home schooling will not give their children the same academic achievement that they can get in school. This should be the least of their worries.

"Virtually all the available data show that the group of hom schooled children who are tested resembles that of children in private schools.... Regardless of income, race, gender, or parents' level of income, home schooled children consistently score between the 82d and 92d percentile on achievement tests."

Even if parents can afford to spend more time at home and even if the state no longer harasses them, many parents fear that their children will not be "socialized" if they are home schooled.

As public schools show more and more signs of being dysfunctional and dangerous places, socialization is becoming the most attractive aspect for parents. In addition, as greater numbers of parents turn to home schooling, larger "networks" of home schoolers have arisen. Lyman's book displays the growing number of support groups that make it easier for families to jump on the home schooling bandwagon.

Another factor favoring home schooling is that, at least for the time being, the media have shed a favorable light upon it. Lyman (a freelance journalist herself) notes that journalists like unusual, offbeat stories, and that home schooling is still fresh enough to appeal to them.

"Conservatives often criticize the media as being the handmaiden of school unions," she says. "But some media outlets have not ignored their task to report that public schools are falling short and, as a result, some families have rearranged their lives to home school."

Off to College

The first college directed particularly to home schooled children was opened this year, Patrick Henry College in Virginia. Its president is Michael Farris, a leader of the home school movement in Virginia and 1993 candidate for lieutenant governor.

Established colleges are becoming more open to home schooled applicants, especially because they are among the best-prepared academically.

For parents of home schooled children who are preparing for college, there is The Complete Guide to Attending College: How to Go to College and Still Obtain an Education.

As most home schoolers would suspect, one need not go to college to get an education, Smith says, and a diploma is no guarantee that one has learned much.

Home schoolers are more likely to have the kind of old-fashioned skills that are needed for college, and they may be surprised to find that they are well ahead of most of their classmates. "You must secure your own education because most of the classes, particularly in the first two years, will be geared toward the academically handicapped, public school product."

Like all freshmen, home schoolers will be unfamiliar with the peculiarities of the academic world. Smith's book is designed to help them understand it.

The most difficult adjustment for home schooled college students is moving into the cattle-car anonymity of the college classroom. But most will have no trouble thriving-they already know not to trust the authorities.

Smith has had experience teaching in both public and private schools, and he knows the system that college students will be entering. He has seen it from the inside and he reveals the facts about watered-down curricula, grade-inflation, and the many other perversions of higher education.

Most of these problems derive from the fact that "the public K-12 schools are about money, not education."

Students are aware of this. "Many of them resent having to learn or actually work to get a good grade in class. These students are now flowing into the nation's classrooms. Because going to college is voluntary, not mandatory, college administrators have made it clear to professors that students are to be accommodated at all costs. In many cases, this means almost any rule can be broken to keep a student on campus and paying tuition. In other words, the patients run the asylum on many campuses."

Home schooled students might also be surprised by the financial aid system, where frugality is not rewarded. "As a general rule, families with lots of debt and other monetary obligations can usually obtain financial aid... much more easily than families with paid-up mortgages and little or nothing charged on credit cards."

Since home schooled students tend to come from religious families and often seek religious colleges, Smith warns, "Being affiliated with a church does not make a college a center of spiritual values. Many church members would be shocked by what goes on in the church's name at their denominational college."

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