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DECEMBER 2000 PRINT EDITION
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Physician
Says Sexual By
Amy Contrada A
grim picture of the sexual health of our young people was given to a crowd of
almost 1000 people last month by a nationally renowned physician from South
Hadley, John R. Diggs Jr. "Right
now, a girl goes to college," the doctor said, "and within three years
almost 60% of the sexually active ones have HPV." According to Diggs, a
huge number of Americans now have an incurable sexually transmitted disease. He
spoke at a fundraising banquet for "A Woman's Concern" at the Westin
Hotel in Waltham. The
grim statistics would not be true if human sexuality were "approached with
moral underpinnings," the doctor told the audience. It is the separation of
our sexual practices from Judeo-Christian teachings that has led our society
into its current crisis, rife with out-of-wedlock births, abortions, new
incurable STDs and rampant abuse of women and children. We will regain a healthy
society only by returning to God's word as the proper guide for our behavior. In
the past decade, there has been progress toward morality, Dr. Diggs said,
because pro-life activists have developed a more profound understanding of the
task facing them and have created centers like A Woman's Concern. He noted that
saving babies is not enough. Their mothers are also in crisis and have to be
helped too. The
doctor, who is black, also said that he is very disturbed that blacks are voting
for pro-abortion Democrats because they don't know about the racist agenda that
was advocated by the founder of Planned Parenthood. Golden
Age of Sex "What
happened in 1981?" asks Dr. Diggs. "AIDS showed up. Herpes showed up.
Chlamydia showed up. Human herpes virus 8 is now a reality. All you know about
is herpes 1 and 2, but we're up to 8. And what's wrong with all these diseases?
They're not curable. Chlamydia is curable, but the others are not curable. Not
only are they not curable, but they're not preventable with condoms. Sure,
condoms have an effect on HIV, they're 90% effective. How many people want to be
90% protected from an incurable disease? "Have
you heard of human papilloma virus? It causes genital warts. Genital warts, no
big deal. Only 2% of the people with HPV get genital warts. With the other 98%
you don't see warts. What does it do? In women, it causes cervical cancer. In
men it causes penile cancer and anal cancer. "But
you've been told that you can use condoms and you'll be prevented from getting
sexually transmitted diseases. Condoms do not work with HPV. Am I telling you
something that only I know? No. Does the Center for Disease Control know this?
Yes. Does the CDC tell you? No. Why can't we have a warning label on condoms so
that people know this? Who opposed this? The American College of Obstetrics and
Gynecology. Planned Parenthood. SIECUS (Sexual Information and Education Council
of the United States). Everybody that wants to support sex at anytime with
anybody opposes informing people. "In
the meantime, they accuse people who promote abstinence of teaching ignorance.
The ignorance is on the part of those who don't want you to know the truth,
because in the middle of this whole thing there is a lie. You cannot have sex
with whomever you want to from a physiological point of view, from a
sociological point of view, from a psychological point of view, or from a
spiritual point of view. It does not work. "Human
papilloma virus is the most common sexually transmitted disease in the country.
It kills more women than AIDS. And you don't know about it. Not only do you not
know about it, but people who've been through sex education classes don't know
about it. It kills 5,000 women a year and 15,000 women a year get cervical
cancer. Who knows how many scores of thousands of women have been seen with some
cervical abnormalities related to HPV? "What
we have to do is regain the original sense of what human sexuality is all about.
And that truth is in the Bible. There will never be a 100% safe method of having
sex with anybody anytime you want to. The Bible tells you how to control your
sexuality: 'For this reason a man shall leave his mother and father and cleave
to his wife and the two shall become one' It says, 'one flesh,' it doesn't say
one couple, it doesn't say one household, it doesn't say one family. It says,
'one flesh.' And that is because one flesh cannot be separated. When you have
sex with somebody you are permanently bonded on some level. "If
you put condoms by the door for your kids you're doing them a disservice. If you
allow somebody else to do it, you're doing them a disservice. And if you don't
oppose it in your schools, you're doing them a disservice. If you tell them
homosexuality is okay, you're doing them a disservice. If you don't stand up
against the contraceptive approach, you're not doing what you should be doing. "What
you have with A Woman's Concern and other crisis pregnancy centers is an
opportunity to have your name written in the Book of Life when somebody comes to
Christ because of you." Supported entirely by contributions, clients don't
pay for the help they receive. Volunteers are trained to help pregnant women.
You would be helping not only them, you're helping your entire society, Dr.
Diggs said. "How
come you don't know that? Because they want you to think that the 'safe sex'
thing is okay. How come they want you to do that? Because they want you to waste
your energy on it. You're going to waste your energy on television, Internet
pornography, and all kinds of entertainment which is basically designed to
dissipate your energy. This is not without purpose. There is a purpose behind
it, and it's always satanic. If somebody's telling you to go against God's word,
it's always satanic, even if the people who are perpetuating it don't know it. "So
you've got to stand up, you've got to act, you've got to volunteer. You've got
to learn how to handle a pregnant girl. If you can't, learn where to send them.
You can train your own doctor." Diggs urged all present to get involved.
"While "A Woman's Concern" alone is not the answer, it is one
place where we can make a difference." A
Confession He
next confessed that he was "pro-choice," but in the sense that God is
pro-choice. God says in Deuteronomy 30, "I call heaven and earth as
witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and
curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live and that you may
love the Lord your God, listen to his voice, and hold fast to him." Diggs
continued, "The problem is when people use the term now, they're talking
about having laws that not only allow but encourage people to think that there's
no life inside of them. So when
they talk about pro-choice, they're pro-abortion. Gore repeatedly says, 'I'm in
favor of a woman's right to choose,' but he never finishes with the object of
the choice." Now
that the new pregnancy centers have sprung up to help both babies and mothers,
the seriousness of the moral and behavioral problems of the birth parents is
more obvious. Diggs said that the pregnancy centers are a kind of "clean-up
operation," because so many of these girls and women have swallowed the
contraceptive lie. They need to change their lives, or they will face yet more
"death and curses." People
have bought the idea that "you can have sex with anyone at anytime"
while remaining free from pregnancy and STDs through birth control methods,
condoms, and antibiotics. This "contraceptive culture" implies that
human sexuality can be separated from its natural product, children. But many
workers on the front lines of this moral battle see that this has indeed proven
a slippery slope leading to problems unimagined just a few decades ago. And many
now have a new or renewed appreciation of the wisdom of the teachings of the
Catholic Church regarding contraception. Diggs
pointed out that the chastity or abstinence movement has actually come out of
the work of the crisis pregnancy centers. "The whole idea is to redirect
these people on what human sexuality is all about, making clear to them that
their choice comes before engaging in sexual activity. You can choose life and
blessings, or you can choose death and curses. And when you misuse your human
faculties, you get death and curses." Diggs
told the story about a late-term abortion. A man had two sons with his
girlfriend. Though not married, the woman was happy to have a man providing
financially for her and her children. But "this man found another woman who
was the girl of his dreams. He married her, didn't tell Girl A about Girl B, and
didn't tell Wife B about Girl A. He had a problem, he had an inconvenience, he
had two children for whom he had to spend time, money, energy, talent and
attention. "This
is the reason people have abortions, because they don't want to spend time,
money, energy and talent. This man went home, stabbed the mother, stabbed the
two children, took his two children, stuffed them in a crate and took them back
to the army base where he was on the Cape. This happened in Massachusetts. That
was a 'late-term abortion.' "This
is exactly what happens when a woman stuffs her child in a trash can after it is
born. This is exactly what happens when a woman has a partial-birth abortion.
This is what happens in an abortion at six months, three months, or even 10
days. You are taking a human life and stuffing it in the trash can for your
convenience." This
is not something new, according to Dr. Diggs. This was part of the reason that
God told the nation of Israel to wipe out the Canaanites. He didn't say go in,
compromise, and live with them. He told them to wipe them out. God did not want
the children of Israel burned alive as sacrifices to Molech. This is what the
Canaanites did as their method of abortion, along with exposing the babies to
wild animals. We are doing nothing differently, he says. "But
what people have to do is go back to the root, that is, expressing your
sexuality in the way that God said you can express your sexuality: one man, one
woman, for life. Do you think that an 18-year-old who decides to have sex
because everybody says it's okay is going to suddenly stop changing partners
every six months or every year when he gets married? "You
know about Clinton in the oval office. Do you also know about the pornography on
the computers in the White House? So much pornography that it took them weeks to
clean it off? Why do people look at pornography? They look at pornography
because they're accustomed to changing partners, they're accustomed to different
men, different women. Which means that whoever they're with, they're fantasizing
about somebody else. Real people you have to negotiate with. Pornography images
always say yes. "And
I know this is a problem in the church. I know it's a problem for a lot of
people in this room. And the other thing I know is, it's not all men. If you
take pornography, pump it into your mind, train your mind to respond to images,
you're not going to want to respond to real people. This is not a sociological
phenomenon, it's a medical phenomenon. "God
in his infinite wisdom produced a chemical, oxytocin, which produces bonding. If
you have a sexual relationship with someone you're not married to, because of
oxytocin, you'll stay bonded to that person even if you break up." Diggs
described an exercise he sometimes does with older kids. "Duct tape is good
for everything. What I use it for is I find the guy with the hairiest arm, get
about six inches of duct tape, slap it on his arm and tell him this is the
sexual act, this is how you bond when you have sex with somebody. When that
relationship breaks up, what happens? What do you get? A scream. You get a piece
of tape full of hair and skin. Your next sexual relation comes along. Take this
piece of tape, put it back on. Does it stick? Yes, but not as well. But the same
thing happens: it pulls off more hair and more skin. "If
you continue breaking the natural bond that occurs because of oxytocin, you
create a situation where eventually that piece of tape won't stick to anything.
Yes, you can get married. Yes, you can have a boyfriend or girlfriend. But your
mind is someplace else, your body is someplace else, and this is why people can
walk out on their families at any time. It's not because they've been unfaithful
during marriage; it's because of what they did before marriage. "This
is an important issue. And this is something that came right out of crisis
pregnancy centers because they're doing cleanup work. It's got to start before
that with the way we bring up our children. "I
don't care what you individually have done, you can become a new creature. You
know that and I don't have to go into the theology of it. But beyond that, it's
not hypocritical for you to say, 'This is what you should do and this is why' -
even if you didn't do it. It's okay. I hear so many people say, 'I can't say
anything to anyone else. I got 3 kids, 3 last names.' But I don't care what you
did. You have to tell your kids the truth. That's what crisis pregnancy centers
are doing. They're basically the impetus behind the whole 'abstinence until
marriage' movement." The
real problem, Diggs said, is that doctors and others will tell you that if you
use birth control pills and condoms, then sex will be safe. But every time
something like that comes up that doesn't make sense, that goes against what you
know is theologically correct, there's a lie. Blacks
Have Been Tricked He
traced the origin of abortion and contraceptives in this country to Margaret
Sanger, founder of Planned Parenthood. "She was a eugenicist and very
influential in getting birth control accepted as an acceptable idea. She did
this through something called the 'Negro Project.' The Negro Project
specifically sought out black ministers to convince them to convince their
churchgoers that contraception was not immoral. "Now
to some of you -most of you, including myself - the idea that contraception
would be immoral was a foreign idea. This was especially true with my medical
training. The idea that writing birth control pill prescriptions was an immoral
thing never crossed my mind. Since Margaret Sanger made a special effort to
address this with the black community back then, it pointed out the fact that
there was a mindset which was universal that birth control was immoral. "If
birth control was immoral, then what is abortion? She went out of her way to get
black ministers to convince black folks back then that birth control was okay.
And apparently the message was very effective. Why did she go there? Because she
was a eugenicist, which means she only wanted certain people to reproduce. Those
people had to be high IQ, have lots of money and be white. Anything other than
that, you're not supposed to reproduce. Birth control was her method of doing
this. "The
camel got its nose under the tent by saying her message about birth control was
only for married people. The Protestant community, on the whole, accepted this
whole argument. The Catholic community resisted it. And, being part of the
Reformation, I say that with a great deal of shame And I say it with even more
shame now, because black ministers across this country are telling black women
they can kill their babies and think nothing of it. Twelve percent of women in
this country are African-American and 35% of aborted babies are
African-American. You do the math. "Who
were Margaret Sanger's friends? Most of them were in Nazi Germany. What came out
of that? Planned Parenthood. They do not do only abortions. They provide high
amounts of contraceptives. They supply a high amount of a 'contraceptive idea,'
that you can have sex with anybody, anytime, as long as you do two things. Use a
condom to stop sexually transmitted disease, use a birth control pill and make
sure you don't get pregnant. What this does is to encourage people to express
their sexuality in ways that choose 'death and curses.' If you don't get a
sexually transmitted disease, if you don't get pregnant by your activity, you've
still chosen 'death and curses.'" Many black ministers fail to understand what is at stake morally, spiritually and sociologically, said Diggs. They have tragically failed their congregations and their communities in one of their most fundamental spiritual responsibilities. "This is a failure of the African-American church to address in a biblical way the deepest needs of hurting people." Diggs
compared the abortion of unwanted American babies to the ancient people of
Canaan who burned to death unwanted babies as sacrifices to the pagan gods
Molech and Baal. "In the Old Testament, God commanded the Israelites to
utterly eradicate the Canaanites from the earth to end their brutal child
sacrifice and other atrocities - a point worth remembering for modern America.
Abortion is the modern version of child sacrifice, this time to the gods of
convenience or finance. That's how far we've come in three thousand years." In
Biblical terms, said Diggs, it is inescapably clear that "choosing
death" for the vulnerable and innocent invokes a divine curse - a curse
that has fallen disproportionately upon the African-American community which has
accepted abortion as merely a quiet solution to the "unwanted consequences
of irresponsible sex." Asked
how so many African-American leaders can endorse politicians whose votes make
such a barbaric practice possible, Diggs answered: "The question
presupposes that they are all Christians." Scorning
the false compassion of public figures who, far removed from the medical and
social consequences of abortion, are sympathetic about a woman's "right to
choose," he argued that the issue is simply inseparable from the general
success and well-being of the African-American community. Dr.
Diggs has appeared on national television programs and is co-chair of the
Massachusetts Physicians Resource Council and an Executive Committee member of
the nationwide Physicians
Consortium. As a physician, Diggs has 15 years of clinical experience in caring
for ethnically and socio-economically diverse patients in communities from New
England to California. Woman's
Concern Started As Experiment Rev.
Ensor showed a brief video with ultrasound pictures of developing babies,
explaining the huge impact these machines have in convincing mothers to give
birth. More ultrasound machines are needed for the new centers (at $25,000
each), and the Yellow Pages ad, listed under "abortion," is extremely
expensive (about $22,000 a year) but also very effective in drawing clients. Another
new program at A Woman's Concern is its joint effort with the Massachusetts
Family Institute: a "fatherhood initiative" called "Dad's the
Man!" Besides the clear problems faced by fatherless families, it turns out
that women are four times more likely to have an abortion if the father is
present but not supportive, and six times more likely to abort if the father is
not present at all. So there is a clear need to involve the biological fathers.
The hope is to promote committed fatherhood by mobilizing "mature Christian
men from local churches who want to help new dads become great fathers."
The Massachusetts Family Institute will construct a database to assess the
impact of the program on the problem of fatherlessness. A
Woman's Concern can be reached at their Dorchester office. |