While you were out
by Nancy Fielding

   Just about 8 years ago, my son of 10 years old was subjected to the teachings of explicit sexual intercourse and masturbation. This was done by the school's healtheducation coordinator. Other children had their regular teacher and were only taught about hygiene and puberty, and it did not go into sex. This was not a comfortable subject for some teachers to teach. This is where she came in.

   This is all old news, but I need to explain to make a point. All parents had to sign a consent form, which was very specific of what would be taught. I had a talk with my son and he thought it to be a silly subject and no big deal. Together we agreed it would be okay. It stated, does not go into sex. When he came home after the class, he was disgusted with ME, because he thought I betrayed him. He told me in his own words “they took away my innocence”. He told me exactly what was in the videos he watched and what was taught by this woman (still working with children), and was told that it was healthy for a man and woman to masturbate.

    Children were encouraged to submit questions, any and all were answered. Of course, at that age the meaning of masturbation needed to be explained, and so forth. Another concerned parent and I asked for the videos and the guidelines of what was taught, but were ignored, then told that she couldn't remember what videos she showed. This went on for several months. A concerned teacher, who wanted to remain anonymous for fear of losing their job, gave me the guidelines. I respected their wish.

    In the meantime, I notified the principals of three other Elementary schools and they prevented this from being taught. Time was of the essence, I was very concerned for the other children and I wanted the Health Education Coordinator to tell the parents what she taught the children so the parent could discuss this with their child in there own way. Who else would know better than the parent? It is a difficult thing to do, but the children needed guidance into the morality of sexual intercourse, and a nurturing, loving parent can only achieve this. This was all I had asked for, nothing more. She just didn't get it. It was as if I was speaking with Joycelyn Elders. This was her responsibility as a human being. At least, this is what I thought.

   Well, it never happened! After months of pressure, and with a group of seven other parents, they finally sent out a general letter, it never told what was taught, it was vague.

   It was totally useless. During the course of all this I was contacted by family rights groups and I was enlightened. Senator Orrin Hatch knew what was going on.

   Everything was in black & white, in print, and factual. Well, low and behold, if you recall, our children in elementary school were being taught about aids, and being taught about every way you could get it. Nothing was held back. The bottom line is the gay & lesbians were very organized way back when, they were funding these teachings into the schools, they were teaching tolerance and if a child had strong morals and was outspoken, they were on their own. Nobody wanted to be labeled homophobic. How ridiculous it sounds but true. It's actually called brainwashing. Let me remind you, Bill Weld was our governor and these were the Clinton years, full of shame, and an embarrassment to the entire world. The children, were exposed to all of this, it couldn't be avoided. Bill Clinton himself said he did not have sex. Oral sex is not sex .

   And so it goes on and here we are…. we have adolescents having oral sex as if it were a handshake. Aids, condoms, masturbation, exploration, “how do you know you're gay if you never tried”. Boys are too masculine and aggressive and have to be medicated. They now need psychiatric care because of depression. It takes a village, meaning let the community bring up your children. The Gay Catholic Priests, preying on our children. Was bringing down the Church on the agenda? Makes you wonder.

    Science had come a long way and was very helpful to women to conceive. Everything had been abused. Our society was weakening and the key words to getting your way was “I'm offended”. It seemed as though everyone was offended by something and whining was “in”. In pursuit of the perfect marriage brought divorce. It was all so easy. Just think, you don't have to bother, why work it out. All that struggling, effort and hard work, forget about it, dump him, done with you. The children would of suffered too much in that environment. Like being caught in between a battle of divorce was a picnic for any child. It's all about me, though! Hollywood , MTV, you name it; we got what we asked for.

    Everyone was too busy and left it up to only a few to take care of it all; “I don't follow politics” was the easy way out. It only affects all aspects of our lives, a necessary staple, such as a gallon of milk.

   Yeah, we were headed downward into the gutter, but we are all one now, we are all on the same page and have had enough. We love our kids and our country; tolerance just went a little bit too far. It is, and has been an infringement upon family life, dismantling the structure of our society. Our flaws were picked up on and used against us. This was the gay agenda. We are all to blame for allowing ourselves to stoop this low; it couldn't get any lower than this. Maybe that's a good thing, because the only way to go now would be up.