Most people get angry at the Boston Globe much
of the time but they don't realize just how
serious the problem is. The Globe has more power
than any elected official, says Sarah McVay
Pawlick, President of Mass. Citizens for Marriage.
"But who elected them?" she asks.
"What right do they have to tell people
the Amendment is dead when that is not true?
That's what they hope is true, but is it a reality?"
Pawlick notes that the Globe wrote in its news
columns on May 2, 2002, "As Senate president,
Birmingham could choose to not schedule a proposed
amendment for a vote, which would scuttle the
measure."
That is not true, she says. When Sen. Birmingham
did as the Globe suggested, this violated the
law. This was not just another political decision
he could "choose," she says.
In another story, the Globe gave public advice
on its news pages that if Sen. Birmingham were
to see that no vote is taken on the measure,
it would "potentially generate some needed
excitement about his campaign [for Governor]." The paper did not say whether this would be
moral, ethical or legal. According to the Globe,
this was strictly a political question for the
Senator.
The Globe also indicated that the Senator could
use more "subtle" means of avoiding
a vote. It said, "He could use more subtle
means of squashing it, rallying allies behind
the scenes and then putting it up for a vote
when he knows it wouldn't get the support it
needs to pass."
While such a tactic may not be "nice," says Pawlick, it is usually expected in politics.
But the question about which many want an answer
is whether not calling for a vote, despite the
mandate by the Constitution, is merely a "political
trick" or is it a violation of our state
laws?
Lawyer
for 'Save Our Horses' Proved That ACLU Blockers
Made it Difficult to Hire Signature Gatherers
An affidavit from the people at Save Our Horses
confirmed that illegal blockers from the ACLU
hurt the marriage amendment.
The California lawyer who represented the horse
people in their suit presented his own Affidavit
in court which said that he interviewed another
Mass. signature-gatherer, Robert Wilkinson,
by telephone on April 7, 2002. (It was Wilkinson's
company that obtained signatures last fall for
bilingual education and for Carla Howell's income
tax. Apparently Carla Howell used both signature-gathering
companies.)
According to the lawyer's
sworn statement, "[An employee of Mass.
Citizens for Marriage] told Mr. Wilkinson that
he wanted to contract with Mr. Wilkinson's company
to collect additional signatures on the Marriage
Amendment petition, Petition E.
"Mr. Wilkinson declined. He had been spending
time on the street supervising the collection
of signatures on other petitions, and knew from
what he saw and heard there that the Marriage
Amendment was controversial. He saw that many
anti-Petition E activists [blockers] were stationed
at the shopping malls where most of the signature
gathering was going on, and heard them urging
voters not to sign Petition E.
"He knew from his experience with past
signature drives that controversy makes it harder
to collect signatures and therefore makes a
controversial petition a bad business venture..."
There's no doubt that the inevitable
result of the illegal blocking was a reluctance
to ask citizens to volunteer to collect signatures
because of concern about their safety. This
necessitated paid signature gatherers. But the
professional signature gatherers recoiled at
the extra work required to gather signatures,
due to the presence of the activists who would
literally get in their face. The price per signature
was driven up because of confrontation and intimidation
tactics by ACLU activists.
This is conclusively proven by Atty. Finley's
own affidavit. But it was never noticed by anyone
during any hearing.
Atty.
Arkuss Refuses to Show Letters
Atty. Neil P. Arkuss failed to ever show the "thousands of signatures" from registered
voters who were "fraudulently diverted" from the horse petition to that of the Protection
of Marriage.
Although this was
not important to his lawsuit which was quickly
dismissed by Judge Thomas E. Connolly, it was
very important as to whether this was just another
dirty trick by the opponents of the Marriage
Amendment.
Arkuss hoped the
whole matter would be forgotten. He had his
fun slandering the supporters of marriage and
never expected anyone would question him about
it.
But MassNews wanted
to report the truth. It challenged him because
the Chair of "Save Our Horses," Susan
Wagner, had sworn in an affidavit before the
Suffolk Superior Court that they had received
written responses from over 1,000 voters in
all parts of Massachusetts. But no impartial
person ever saw the 1,000 "written responses" which were alleged.
A box of something
was brought to the hearing before Judge Thomas
E. Connolly, but no one ever saw the contents
of the box. The "responses" were not
shown to the lawyers from Atty. Gen. Reilly's
office who represented the Commonwealth. They
were apparently not given to the judge. The
trial lawyer for the horse petition, Atty. Daniel
I. Small, told MassNews they were probably in
the custody of Susan Wagner.
After the suit was
filed against the Secretary of the Commonwealth
in March, the President of MCM, Sarah McVay
Pawlick urged the Secretary to "conduct
an investigation" in order "to examine
the evidence" which was claimed in the
lawsuit.
She said,"We
request that you begin this investigation immediately
and complete it as quickly as possible. As you
know, the statements made to the media by Save
Our Horses have never contained either names
or facts. Over the past five months since last
November, they have complained repeatedly that
a substantial number of people signed our petition
while thinking they were signing the horse petition.
We have waited vainly for over five months for
any proof of those charges. But none has been
forthcoming. Nevertheless, now that a suit has
been filed against you - still without any proof
of the charges - we must request that your office
undertake an immediate and thorough investigation
of this matter."
Pawlick wrote to
Atty. Arkuss, "The names of the thousand
or more people you claim have made written responses
to you have still not been revealed. But your
friends, who are the opponents of the Marriage
Amendment, still use your lawsuit to disparage
all who signed the Marriage Amendment even though
Judge Connolly has dismissed your suit.
"You have made
serious charges against the Marriage Amendment,
which many believe was done on purpose. It is
time for you to prove those charges. If some
of the signature-gatherers who were hired by
both you and Mass. Citizens for Marriage did
indeed defraud anyone, everyone would be upset
- and rightly so.
"We request
that you allow Massachusetts News to examine
those written responses. If that is not satisfactory
to you, I would request that you suggest an
impartial person of unquestioned integrity to
do so.
"Please be kind enough to inform me how
this examination would occur."
Atty. Arkuss never
responded nor showed anyone the letters he claimed
to have.
Sen
Kerry Wanted a Vote on Marriage
Senator John F. Kerry made his support for a
vote on the Amendment while he was on NBC's "Meet the Press." At the same time,
he reiterated his opposition to gay marriage.
When asked whether Massachusetts voters deserved
the right to address the issue, Kerry said, "I think people always deserve the right
to vote and, if you have a referendum process
... people have a right to exercise it."
The full text of this segment on Meet the
Press was:
RUSSERT: A difficult issue for Democrats:
In your state, Robert Reich, Democratic candidate
for governor, came out in favor of gay marriage.
Would you support that?
SEN. KERRY: No, I don't support gay marriage.
I support partnership rights. I believe that
is important. We've done that in many parts
of the country. But I do not support marriage.
RUSSERT: Would you allow a ballot referendum
or support a ballot referendum in Massachusetts
to allow people to vote yes or no on gay marriage?
KERRY: Well, we actually have a ballot
referendum this year that will go to the heart
of the matter with respect to gay marriage.
RUSSERT: But it's being blocked by leaders
of the state Legislature. Do you believe that
the people of Massachusetts deserve a right
to vote on it?
KERRY: I think people always deserve
a right to vote, and if you have a referendum
process, Tim, people have a right to exercise
it.
Many
Were Influenced by Bogus Poll of Boston Herald
Beacon Hill was greatly influenced by a Boston
Herald poll which was released the day before
the vote in an obvious attempt to influence
the voting. Many political polls are released
at the last minute, right before a vote, so
that no one has the time to refute its accuracy.
The feminist chief
of the Editorial Page, Rachelle Cohen, has written
that the Amendment is "childish" and
her columnist, Margery Eagan, has compared those
who signed the petition to the Taliban. Therefore,
many wonder about the timing and accuracy of
the poll.
The Herald has refused
to release any of the data concerning the poll,
which it says was taken of 402 persons. It will
not reveal the questions that were asked nor
the demographics of the people to whom they
talked, although this violates professional
ethical standards.
The Herald poll said
that 52% oppose the Amendment although this
flies in the face of every other poll on the
subject.
In a poll taken this
year of 500 persons by Wirthlin Worldwide, 86%
disagreed with the statement that "marriage
is an old-fashioned outmoded institution," and 81% agreed that it is better for children
to be raised in a household with a married mother
and father. The majority of persons agree that
about 60% of the citizens favor the Amendment.
This refusal to release
the questionnaire and the demographics makes
it impossible for objective observers to determine
if the results cited in this article are credible.
An official at RKM Research and Communications,
Portsmouth, N.H., refused to release any information
about their polling.
In addition, the
sample size used for this survey, 400 respondents,
is smaller than the typical sample size for
a state or commonwealth the size of Massachusetts.
According to the
Herald, this poll was conducted on a Thursday,
Friday, and Saturday. Fridays and Saturdays
are days on which it is generally more difficult
to reach "family values" conservatives
because these people are consumed with family
activities at these times.
In addition, women
are most likely to oppose the Amendment. In
the Vermont legislature, the men legislators
voted against civil unions, with only 41 favoring
it and 60 against, while the women voted for
it by a four-to-one margin of 35-9. The final
vote was 76 in favor and 69 against. But the
Herald won't tell how many of the persons in
their poll were women, whether they were married
or whether they lived in cities, etc.
The Wirthlin poll
commissioned by MassNews was 500 adults 18-years
or older, randomly generated and stratified
by county according to census population data.
In addition, the sample was validated according
to gender, age, and educational attainment to
ensure accurate representation of the county's
adult population. The margin of error for a
sample size of 500 is 4.38 percentage points
in 95 out of 100 cases.
Violates
Code of Ethics
The code of ethics
for the American Association of Public Opinion
researchers states in Section III of the code:
Good professional
practice imposes the obligation upon all public
opinion researchers to include, in any report
of research results, or to make available when
that report is released, certain essential information
about how the research was conducted. At a minimum,
the following items should be disclosed:
1) Who sponsored the survey, and who conducted
it.
2) The exact wording of questions asked, including
the text of any preceding instruction or explanation
to the interviewer or respondents that might
reasonably be expected to affect the response.
How many lies can you find in the following
paragraph that was on the website of the main
opponent, The Campaign for Equality?
"One week after September 11, a paid
signature gathering firm from Arizona arrived
in Massachusetts to work for anti-gay extremists.
At a time when most Americans, in some way,
were sifting through the rubble of fear and
fanaticism - seeking unity - these signature-hustlers
hit our streets, seeking 'support' for a Constitutional
Amendment that would make it permanently illegal
for gay and lesbian families here to have basic
protections."
In the first place, this firm was here many
weeks before Sept. 11, working for two other
campaigns in Massachusetts. It did not "arrive
in Massachusetts" after that day. In the
second place, it was never working for "anti-gay
extremists." In the third place, the only
reason it was necessary to hire professionals
was because the Campaign for Equality had already
indicated it was going to be a nasty, physical
confrontation.
National
Gays Active in Massachusetts
There are many national organizations which
agree that the Bay State is "ground zero." The largest and richest gay group in the U.S.
is the Human Rights Campaign, founded by James
Hormel, the scion of the Hormel meat company
and Bill Clinton's Ambassador to Luxembourg.
Another activist, Tim Gill, gave $18.5 million
last year to homosexual causes according to
USA Today. He made his fortune with the software
company, Quark. Most of the big money for these
causes is coming from other high tech moguls.
Kathy Levinson donates about $500,000 per year
and David Bohnett gave about $2 million last
year.
Everyone knows that if you have enough money,
you can buy almost anything you want in Washington.
There is not one single group anywhere in the
entire country that is working solely to counter
the efforts or money of the national homosexual
groups - much less one that is rich.
One activist told Bay Windows that the National
Gay and Lesbian Task Force was "doing amazing
work already. I think that if we organize and
really mobilize and take our lead and learn
from the mistakes that some of the states have
made, like California, I think that we have
a fighting chance. It's like 50-50 right now,
so it could go either way." That's the
organization that has Sue Hyde on the ground
in Massachusetts. It conducted a training session
for activists last year in Worcester.
They wish to stop the people from voting because
they have a better chance of winning if lawyers
and judges make the decisions. The feminists
have many lawyers in high positions in the courts.
Therefore, they would like lawyers to decide
the issue and not the citizens.
One of the lawyers at Gay & Lesbian Advocates
& Defenders, Mary Bonauto, told Bay Windows
she didn't think the matter "should be
on the ballot at all" because it is a civil
rights issue. But many people pointed out that
this concerns the writing of the Constitution.
When a country writes a Constitution, it does
not invite only lawyers to do so. But Atty.
Bonauto desires that to happen because she knows
it is the only way her side will win.
According to Bay Windows, Atty. Bonauto "takes
issue with the MCM's attempt to circumvent
the judicial system by putting the issue
of gay marriage to voters." [emphasis added]
Bonauto said: "I'd like to think
that the majority of Massachusetts citizens
will reject that." [emphasis added]
Extreme
Liberal Groups Work Mass.
Two other national
organizations are actively working in Massachusetts
to defeat the Amendment. One of them is the
extreme feminist organization, NOW. Everyone
knows that support from this feminist group
would be the kiss-of-death, so NOW is forced
to stay in the background. However, it is a
member of Campaign for Equality, the group that
sent blockers around the state to stop the people
from signing.
The other national group, the ACLU, is also
a member of the Campaign for Equality. One of
its lawyers, Norma Shapiro, says she trained
many of the blockers.
Why
Is This Important to Average Fathers?
An intense battle is now underway by those who
are trying to force everyone to follow the socialist
model.
They are strongly
opposed to the "Protection of Marriage" Amendment to our state Constitution because
it would damage their plans. They even forced
Senate President Tom Birmingham to break the
law in an attempt to defeat it.
Why are they so against the Marriage Amendment?
Because they are the ones who would have the
children raised by the government. They are
pushing the homosexuals out in front and telling
everyone that the Amendment is only an attack
on homosexuals.
If fathers don't realize the importance of this
threat to all parents, both fathers and mothers,
they will be like the people who were arguing
about who was going to sit with the Captain
of the Titanic on its cruise through the icebergs.
It is good to know that Shannon O'Brien is with
the fathers on shared parenting, but now the
fathers must ask her where she stands on the
more important questions. Is she in favor of
lowering taxes for all parents? Does she oppose
the standard feminist dogma of putting the state
more and more in charge of all children? Those,
and many others, appear to be important questions.
Afraid
to Let People Decide
A staunch supporter of gays, Rep. Alice K. Wolf
(D-Cambridge), admitted that the gays are afraid
to let the people decide the issue because they
know they will lose. According to the Globe,
Wolf told it, "Gay-rights advocates have
long feared that conservative groups would take
their campaign to the voting booth."
According to Bay
Windows, "If the developments across the
country are any indication, supporters of same-sex
marriage [in Mass.] may be facing an uphill
battle." It pointed out that 35 states
already had laws, at that time, similar to the
proposed Amendment in Massachusetts. Some 70%
of the voters in Nebraska approved a similar
measure in 2000 and 60% already approve it in
Massachusetts.
Bay
Windows Columnist Asks, Why Not Recognize Groups
of Three?
A columnist in Bay Windows, has raised the point
that if two homosexuals can raise a child successfully,
why couldn't a group of three do it even better?
Her article was titled, "Is Monogamy Normal?" It is impossible for anyone to argue against
that as a legal principle if we change the definition
of marriage.
The columnist says that "polyamorists"
have 250 web and in-person support groups. She
noted a case in Time magazine about a woman
who lived with her daughter and two men and
a grandmother petitioned for custody. The columnist
said, "We all practice some degree of polyamory
in our lives, and it's essential to our well
being. Some of us should practice even more
than we do."
It's difficult to argue with that logic in a
courtroom when we've all seen children raised
by an extended family of grandmothers, aunts
and uncles.
ï Can we logically deny that many people
have successfully been raised by three or four
relatives? Is there any logical reason to deny
health and other benefits to those people? How
about a commune? Where will you stop?
ï A basic decision about morality was made
by the U.S. Supreme Court in 1986. It said our
laws are "constantly based on notions of
morality, and if all laws representing essentially
moral choices are to be invalidated under the
Due Process Clause, the courts will be very
busy indeed." It refused to decide whether
a state was wrong when it made the moral judgment
that sodomy is a crime. The Supreme Court says
that we, the citizens, are constantly making
decisions about morality every day. It is part
of our duty as citizens in a democracy.
ï What should we do about the intelligent,
professional adults who say that they help children
by having sexual relations with them? Many professionals
agree with them. Can we prove with logic that
they are not correct? They will argue that they
are discriminated against and should be allowed
to marry and adopt children. The American Psychological
Association caused a brouhaha a year ago when
it published a study which indicated that these
people can have a positive influence on a child.
It said that we should eliminate the use of
"judgmental terms" such as "child
abuse," "molestation," and "victims."
We should use neutral, value-free terms like
"adult-child sex." We should not talk
about "the severity of abuse," but
instead refer to "the level of sexual intimacy."
After great pressure, including a resolution
from Congress, the APA apologized for printing
the study. The American Psychiatric Association
also changed its diagnostic manual a few years
back so that a person no longer has a "disorder"
simply because he "molests" children.
To be diagnosed as "disordered," the
psychiatrists look to the psyche of the adult.
If the adult does not feel anxious about the
relationship with the child or if he is not
impaired in his work or social relationships,
then he has no "disorder." Can we
deny these people the right to marry and defend
that position in court if we change the definition
of marriage?
Full
Text of 'Protection of Marriage' Amendment
It being the public policy of this Commonwealth
to protect the unique relationship of marriage
in order to promote, among other goals, the
stability and welfare of society and the best
interests of children, only the union of one
man and one woman shall be valid or recognized
as a marriage in Massachusetts. Any other relationship
shall not be recognized as a marriage or its
legal equivalent, nor shall it receive the benefits
or incidents exclusive to marriage from the
Commonwealth, its agencies, departments, authorities,
commissions, offices, officials and political
subdivisions. Nothing herein shall be construed
to effect an impairment of a contract in existence
as of the effective date of this amendment.
Summary of Amendment
as Written by Attorney General
This proposed constitutional
amendment would add to the state Constitution
a provision that only the union of one man and
one woman shall be valid or recognized as a
marriage in Massachusetts. It would prohibit
any other relationship from either (1) receiving
the benefits or incidents exclusive to marriage
from the state or from any of its authorities,
cities or towns, or other political subdivisions;
or (2) being recognized as a marriage or its
legal equivalent. The proposed amendment would
also declare the state's public policy to be
that marriage is a unique relationship and is
to be protected in order to promote the stability
and welfare of society and the best interests
of children.
649
Teens Commit To Abstinence Until Marriage
Over 850 young people packed the gym at a school
in North Easton last month to hear a faith-based
message about abstinence at a dynamic presentation
called "The Silver Ring Thing." At
the end of the three-hour event, 649 teens put
on silver rings to symbolize their commitment
to stay sexually pure until marriage.
Wall-to-wall teens, some with their younger
siblings in tow, soaked up a positive message
about abstinence in a fun way through skits,
music videos, mock commercials, comedy, heart-to-heart
talks and even some medical information from
a physician.
The kids learned about the advantages of waiting
until they are married, and how they rob themselves
and their future spouse of a once-in-a-lifetime
gift of their virginity. They heard about the
emotional and physical damage that often results
from early sex. They heard about the lies of "safe sex." They learned to look at
relationships in a different way than has been
portrayed in the media.
"We didn't have any idea how many kids
would show up. It's a miracle," said Lynn
Payne, a parent who was instrumental in bringing
the event to Massachusetts."
Attacks
on Marriage Began in 1949
The first attacks on marriage began to waft
across the Atlantic from France in 1949. This
was the year in which The Second Sex was written
by Simone de Beauvoir. She talked about the "submission" of women that was an
intrinsic part of marriage and how it was really
nothing more than prostitution.
By the time that NOW was organized in the United
States in 1966, after the Civil Rights Act became
effective in 1965, there were many extreme feminists
eager to denounce marriage.
As feminist Marcia Cohen says in her book, The
Sisterhood, those feminists believed that women
who chose to stay home to take care of their
children become the "ultimate, useless
parasite." This was the standard feminist
mantra, Cohen said.
The president of the influential New York chapter
of NOW, Ti-Grace Atkinson, told the New York
Times back in 1968: "We're afraid of the
truth. To say that you can be both a career
woman and a wife and mother, and that the institutions
won't change and won't be threatened - that's
a cop out. . . . Any real change in the status
of women would be a fundamental assault on marriage
and the family. People would be tied together
by love, not legal contraptions. Children would
be raised communally; it's just not honest to
talk about freedom for women unless you get
the child rearing off their backs. We may not
be ready for any of this yet, but if we're going
to be honest, we've got to talk about it. Face
it, raise the questions."
She also said, "The institution of marriage
has the same effect as the institution of slavery
had. It separates people in the same category,
disperses them, keeps them from identifying
as a class. The masses of slaves didn't recognize
their condition, either. To say that a woman
is really 'happy' with her home and kids is
as irrelevant as saying that the blacks were
'happy' being taken care of by 'Ol Massa.' ...
I think it's time for us to go on the offensive."
Atkins thought the nuclear family should be
abolished and children should be raised communally.
The more conservative Betty Friedan was just
a trifle more gentle: "[W]hether we will
finally have to challenge the institutions,
the concepts of marriage and the nuclear family
- I don't know, I just don't know." She
also said: "[W]hen a woman defines herself
as a housewife [i.e., a mother], the house and
things in it are, in a sense, her identity;
she needs these external trappings to buttress
her emptiness of self..."
The extremist feminist organization that they
began, NOW, has not changed since its inception.
But it has had a problem in Massachusetts because
most women do not dislike men. The Boston Globe
recognized this in an article on April 14, 2001.
Therefore, NOW is not allowed to appear publicly
in the battle against the Marriage Amendment,
but it is working actively with the opponents
as is seen by its listing on the website of
www.massequality.org.
It also reports on its national website, news
from Massachusetts about the fight against the
Amendment.
Basic
Unit of a Healthy Society
The family, led by a married husband and wife,
has always been the basic unit of a healthy
and stable society, say historians. This assertion
is based on thousands of years of historical
and cultural continuity in law and tradition
in every culture and civilization in recorded
history. Marriage between a man and a woman
expresses the accumulated wisdom of humanity
and has been well established as the best model
for raising children.
Therefore, anyone proposing radical change to
the longstanding structure of the family in
Massachusetts, as the opponents do, incontrovertibly
has the burden of proof that such change not
only will cause no harm, but will be beneficial
to society. Until that is proven conclusively,
most believe that no such changes should be
made to public policy.